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9/11From Grooming to Discard via Shared Fantasy: Cheat, Mortify, Exit
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- 2020-06-05
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- love bombing, grooming, isolation, pain, hurt, defences, sex, romantic, workplace, unconscious, consciousness, ego, introversion, id, superego, sadist, sadism, pain, hurt, humiliation, degradation, narcissistic supply, mortification, punishment, masochism, narcissist, borderline, mortification, shock, shame, guilt, fear, personality, false self, true self, grandiosity, splitting, needs, cheating, intimate partner, relationships, anxiety, morals, empathy, healing, trauma, self awareness, child, mother, splitting, fantasy, psychosis, delusion
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- English
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LISTEN WELL, TAKE NOTES, and POSITION YOURSELF in the NARCISSIST's CYCLE to PREDICT THE FUTURE and design COPING STRATEGIES!!!
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In the first encounters, the narcissist assumes the role of the strict, ostensibly benevolent, but sadistic parent ("tough love") - or the hurt, petulant, entitled, self-centred, and sadistic child. As a parent, he is having sadistic incest. As a child, he is having masochistic incest. The inevitable cheating by the partner punishes the parent and mortifies the child, fostering personal development and growth as well as a creative spurt.
In the narcissist’s relationships OF ALL KINDS (romantic, business, "friendships"), there are five phases: grooming, shared fantasy, interstitial I (two options: exit or persist), mortification or anti-fantasy, and interstitial II.
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